FROM rash judgments proceed mistrust, contempt for others, pride, and
self-sufficiency, and numberless other pernicious results, among which
stands forth prominently the sin of slander, which is a veritable pest
of society. Oh, wherefore can I not take a live coal from God’s Altar,
and touch the lips of men, so that their iniquity may be taken away and
their sin purged, even as the Seraphim purged the lips of Isaiah. 
He who could purge the world of slander would cleanse it from a great
part of its sinfulness!
He who unjustly takes away his neighbour’s good name is guilty of sin,
and is bound to make reparation, according to the nature of his evil
speaking; since no man can enter into Heaven cumbered with stolen
goods, and of all worldly possessions the most precious is a good name.
Slander is a kind of murder; for we all have three lives–a spiritual
life, which depends upon the Grace of God; a bodily life, depending on
the soul; and a civil life, consisting in a good reputation. Sin
deprives us of the first, death of the second, and slander of the
third. But the slanderer commits three several murders with his idle
tongue: he destroys his own soul and that of him who hearkens, as well
as causing civil death to the object of his slander; for, as S. Bernard
says, the Devil has possession both of the slanderer and of those who
listen to him, of the tongue of the one, the ear of the other. And
David says of slanderers, “They have sharpened their tongues like a
serpent; adders’ poison is under their lips.”  Aristotle says
that, like the forked, two-edged tongue of the serpent, so is that of
the slanderer, who at one dart pricks and poisons the ear of those who
hear him, and the reputation of him who is slandered.
My daughter, I entreat you never speak evil of any, either directly or
indirectly; beware of ever unjustly imputing sins or faults to your
neighbour, of needlessly disclosing his real faults, of exaggerating
such as are overt, of attributing wrong motives to good actions, of
denying the good that you know to exist in another, of maliciously
concealing it, or depreciating it in conversation. In all and each of
these ways you grievously offend God, although the worst is false
accusation, or denying the truth to your neighbour’s damage, since
therein you combine his harm with falsehood.
Those who slander others with an affectation of good will, or with
dishonest pretences of friendliness, are the most spiteful and evil of
all. They will profess that they love their victim, and that in many
ways he is an excellent man, but all the same, truth must be told, and
he was very wrong in such a matter; or that such and such a woman is
very virtuous generally, but and so on. Do you not see through the
artifice? He who draws a bow draws the arrow as close as he can to
himself, but it is only to let it fly more forcibly; and so such
slanderers appear to be withholding their evil-speaking, but it is only
to let it fly with surer aim and go deeper into the listeners’ minds.
Witty slander is the most mischievous of all; for just as some poisons
are but feeble when taken alone, which become powerful when mixed with
wine, so many a slander, which would go in at one ear and out at the
other of itself, finds a resting-place in the listener’s brain when it
is accompanied with amusing, witty comments. “The poison of asps is
under their lips.” The asp’s bite is scarcely perceptible, and its
poison at first only causes an irritation which is scarcely
disagreeable, so that the heart and nervous system dilate and receive
that poison, against which later on there is no remedy.
Do not pronounce a man to be a drunkard although you may have seen him
drunk, or an adulterer, because you know he has sinned; a single act
does not stamp him for ever. The sun once stood still while Joshua and
the children of Israel avenged themselves upon their enemies;  and
another time it was darkened at mid-day when the Lord was crucified;
 but no one would therefore say that it was stationary or dark.
Noah was drunk once, and Lot, moreover, was guilty of incest, yet
neither man could be spoken of as habitually given to such sins;
neither would you call S. Paul a man of blood or a blasphemer, because
he had blasphemed and shed blood before he became a Christian. Before a
man deserves to be thus stigmatised, he must have formed a habit of the
sin he is accused of, and it is unfair to call a man passionate or a
thief, because you have once known him steal or fly into a passion.
Even when a man may have persisted long in sin, you may say what is
untrue in calling him vicious. Simon the leper called Magdalene a
sinner, because she had once lived a life of sin; but he lied, for she
was a sinner no longer, but rather a very saintly penitent, and so our
Lord Himself undertook her defence. 
The Pharisee looked upon the publican as a great sinner,–probably as
unjust, extortionate, adulterous;  but how mistaken he was,
inasmuch as the condemned publican was even then justified! If God’s
Mercy is so great, that one single moment is sufficient for it to
justify and save a man, what assurance have we that he who yesterday
was a sinner is the same to-day? Yesterday may not be the judge of
today, nor to-day of yesterday: all will be really judged at the Last
Great Day. In short, we can never affirm a man to be evil without
running the risk of lying. If it be absolutely necessary to speak, we
may say that he was guilty of such an act, that he led an evil life at
such and such a time, or that he is doing certain wrong at the present
day; but we have no right to draw deductions for to-day from yesterday,
nor of yesterday from today; still less to speak with respect to the
But while extremely sensitive as to the slightest approach to slander,
you must also guard against an extreme into which some people fall,
who, in their desire to speak evil of no one, actually uphold and speak
well of vice. If you have to do with one who is unquestionably a
slanderer, do not excuse him under the expressions of frank and
free-spoken; do not call one who is notoriously vain, liberal and
elegant; do not call dangerous levities mere simplicity; do not screen
disobedience under the name of zeal, or arrogance of frankness, or evil
intimacy of friendship. No, my child, we must never, in our wish to
shun slander, foster or flatter vice in others; but we must call evil
evil, and sin sin, and so doing we shall serve God’s Glory, always
bearing in mind the following rules.
If you would be justified in condemning a neighbour’s sin, you must be
sure that it is needful either for his good or that of others to do so.
For instance, if light, unseemly conduct is spoken of before young
people in a way calculated to injure their purity, and you pass it
over, or excuse it, they may be led to think lightly of evil, and to
imitate it; and therefore you are bound to condemn all such things
freely and at once, unless it is obvious that by reserving your
charitable work of reprehension to a future time, you can do it more
Furthermore, on such occasions it is well to be sure that you are the
most proper person among those present to express your opinion, and
that your silence would seem in any way to condone the sin. If you are
one of the least important persons present, it is probably not your
place to censure; but supposing it to be your duty, be most carefully
just in what you say,–let there not be a word too much or too little.
For instance, you censure the intimacy of certain people, as dangerous
and indiscreet. Well, but you must hold the scales with the most exact
justice, and not exaggerate in the smallest item. If there be only a
slight appearance of evil, say no more than that; if it be a question
of some trifling imprudence, do not make it out to be more; if there be
really neither imprudence nor positive appearance of evil, but only
such as affords a pretext for malicious slander, either say simply so
much, or, better still, say nothing at all. When you speak of your
neighbour, look upon your tongue as a sharp razor in the surgeon’s
hand, about to cut nerves and tendons; it should be used so carefully,
as to insure that no particle more or less than the truth be said. And
finally, when you are called upon to blame sin, always strive as far as
possible to spare the sinner.
Public, notorious sinners may be spoken of freely, provided always even
then that a spirit of charity and compassion prevail, and that you do
not speak of them with arrogance or presumption, or as though you took
pleasure in the fall of others. To do this is the sure sign of a mean
ungenerous mind. And, of course, you must speak freely in condemnation
of the professed enemies of God and His Church, heretics and
schismatics,–it is true charity to point out the wolf wheresoever he
creeps in among the flock. Most people permit themselves absolute
latitude in criticising and censuring rulers, and in calumniating
nationalities, according to their own opinions and likings. But do you
avoid this fault; it is displeasing to God, and is liable to lead you
into disputes and quarrels. When you hear evil of any one, cast any
doubt you fairly can upon the accusation; or if that is impossible,
make any available excuse for the culprit; and where even that may not
be, be yet pitiful and compassionate, and remind those with whom you
are speaking that such as stand upright do so solely through God’s
Grace. Do your best kindly to check the scandal-bearer, and if you know
anything favourable to the person criticised, take pains to mention it.
 Isa. vi. 6, 7.
 Ps. cxl. 3.
 Josh. x. 13.
 S. Luke xxiii. 44.
 S. Luke vii. 37-39.
 S. Luke xviii. 11.